The one thing that is ours
Of everything in a human life, how much is genuinely in our power? Epictetus draws one line and hangs his whole teaching on which side of it a thing falls.
A single thing is wholly ours, Epictetus tells his students again and again: the use we make of our impressions — our judgements, and what we choose to pursue or refuse. Everything else, the body, property, reputation and the people we love, belongs to the world and can be recalled at any moment. Drawing that line correctly is the whole of the work, because most misery comes from wanting what falls on the world's side and treating it as ours. It is not resignation but a relocation of the self to the one province where nothing external can reach, the place he calls the faculty of choice.
- will
- judgment
- control
- agency
- responsibility
- autonomy
- perception
- reason
Enter a dialogue
- Skilled ball players ignore whether the ball is good or bad and care only about the throw and the catch. In life, what is the ball?
- A student frets that people may not think him learned. You say the fretting already shows what he is: querulous, cowardly, fault-finding. Why?
- Telling a person their judgments are all that is truly theirs sounds like it lets the world off the hook for real harm — does it?
- Without the lion, the hydra and the boar, the hero Hercules would have been nobody. Why are life's monsters what lets a person show who he is?
- We dread death, exile and pain, yet feel no alarm at acting rashly or shamelessly. Why is our fear pointed the wrong way?