The one thing that is ours
Of everything in a human life, how much is genuinely in our power? Epictetus draws one line and hangs his whole teaching on which side of it a thing falls.
A single thing is wholly ours, Epictetus tells his students again and again: the use we make of our impressions — our judgements, and what we choose to pursue or refuse. Everything else, the body, property, reputation and the people we love, belongs to the world and can be recalled at any moment. Drawing that line correctly is the whole of the work, because most misery comes from wanting what falls on the world's side and treating it as ours. It is not resignation but a relocation of the self to the one province where nothing external can reach, the place he calls the faculty of choice.
- will
- judgment
- control
- agency
- responsibility
- autonomy
- perception
- reason
Enter a dialogue
- Someone is consumed by an outcome they cannot control — how does your line between what is ours and what is not free them?
- Telling a person their judgments are all that is truly theirs sounds like it lets the world off the hook for real harm — does it?
- How would you tell your relocation of the self to the faculty of choice apart from simply not caring about anything?
- If only my judgments are mine and my body and loved ones are not, what claim on the world must a person stop making?
- A person keeps blaming circumstances for their unhappiness — what does your teaching that the disturbance lies in our opinions ask of them?