Comfort in loss and pain
What can honestly be said to someone who has lost goods, friends or health? Eckhart offers a severe comfort: look at what remains, and want what God wants.
Eckhart names three sorrows, the loss of outward goods, the loss of family and friends, and harm to oneself in shame, sickness and pain of heart, and he answers them with reasons rather than sympathy. Someone who has lost forty marks of a hundred should turn to the sixty kept; a sick man with doctors and friends should think of the poor who beg bread in the snow. Beneath the arithmetic lies the claim that grief comes from clinging, and that whoever wants exactly what God wants has nothing left to lose.
- consolation
- suffering
- loss
- patience
- gratitude
- divine will
- divine providence
- desire
- sacrifice
- will
Enter a dialogue
- Someone with a hundred marks loses forty and keeps staring at the forty. Why do you turn their eyes to the sixty that remain?
- A sick man in pain has a house, doctors and friends at his bed. Why set beside him the poor begging bread in the snow?
- Seneca, the pagan teacher, counts it the best comfort to take everything as if one had wished for it. Can a grieving person really do that?
- Someone would gladly go blind for a year to save a friend from death. Why should that make a loss for God's sake easier to bear?
- A critic says such hard teaching should never be given to unlearned people. Why do you answer that otherwise nobody would ever become learned?