Love That Asks for Nothing
Most religion bargains with God, offering worship for safety or reward. Whether a love can exist that wants nothing back, not even freedom, is the wager of the book's second half.
Vivekananda draws love as a triangle: it never bargains, it never fears, and it allows no rival. Worship from fear of punishment sits on the lowest rung; above it the devotee may love God as master, as friend, as child and finally as beloved, borrowing the strongest human passion for the highest object. Renunciation then comes without a struggle, because a greater attraction has displaced the lesser ones. At the summit the lover asks to be born again and again, so long as God stays his love.
- supreme devotion
- divine love
- love
- devotion
- bhakti
- selflessness
- universal love
- renunciation
- desire
Enter a dialogue
- Love, you say, is a triangle whose first angle is that it never bargains. What becomes of prayers that ask God for something?
- Your highest devotee prays not to be freed but to be born again and again, so long as God stays his love. Why turn down liberation itself?
- Someone keeps the commandments mainly out of fear of being punished. Why do you put such a believer on the lowest rung of love?
- The highest form of devotion you describe takes the passion between lovers as its model. Why is a lover's madness a truer image than a servant's obedience?
- Most paths demand that a person tear themselves away from worldly pleasures. Why, on your account, does the lover of God let them fall away without a struggle?