Prudence, a woman's best defence
What protects a woman whose standing depends on what others say of her? The advice treats a good name as property to be managed, and prudence as the skill of managing it.
Worldly Prudence gives the princess seven teachings, and the hardest concerns her enemies. No one is loved by all, since envy killed even Christ, so she should show those who wish her harm a friendly face, consult them on trifles and never let a word against them escape. The same realism runs through the advice on reading her own accounts and on charity done in public view, which the book names 'just hypocrisy' because it aims at good. A ruined reputation helps no one, least of all the people who depend on her.
- prudence
- reputation
- slander
- envy
- honor
- virtue
- loyalty
- courtship
- moderation
- temperance
- pride
- humility
- virtue ethics
Enter a dialogue
- You call it 'just hypocrisy' when a princess lets her charity be seen so that others copy it. Can a virtue done partly for show remain a virtue?
- Your princess is to smile at her enemies, consult them on trifles and never speak a word against them. Is that prudence, or dishonesty with good manners?
- In your book a governess writes to her young mistress that a secret love will cost her good name. Why should a name outweigh her happiness?
- Reading the accounts of her own revenues and knowing what she owes merchants is, for you, a princess's duty. Why is knowing the figures a moral matter?
- Envy killed even Christ, you remind the princess, so no one can hope to be loved by all. Why then spend so much care on what people say?