Repeating What Hurt
Why would a mind built to seek pleasure keep returning to pain? Freud gathers the cases his own theory could not explain and lets them force a new idea.
Soldiers' nightmares bring back the catastrophe, which hardly fits the claim that every dream fulfils a wish. A toddler stages his mother's leaving with a reel on a string, playing the loss more often than the return. Children replay a frightening visit to the doctor on a playmate; patients relive old hurts with the analyst instead of remembering them. Some of this can be read as an attempt to master an experience suffered passively. What remains, Freud argues, is a compulsion to repeat older than the pleasure principle.
- repetition compulsion
- repetition
- trauma
- child's play
- dreams
- mastery
- neurosis
- memory
- pleasure and pain
Enter a dialogue
- A toddler throws his reel out of sight with a long “o-o-o”, gone, then pulls it back with a joyful “there”. Why play the sad half more often?
- Soldiers back from the war dream night after night of the moment that broke them and wake in fresh terror. What wish could such a dream fulfil?
- A child who has had a frightening examination at the doctor's comes home and plays doctor on a younger playmate. What is the game for?
- Patients in analysis, you found, repeat old hurts with the doctor instead of remembering them. Why would acting out a past be easier than recalling it?
- Fright, you say, differs from anxiety: it strikes when danger finds us unprepared. Why should being ready to be afraid protect a person?