Speeches on Love, and a Defence of Marriage
Five men at a banquet speak on love and on woman; a married man answers them in defence of marriage. Underneath is the question whether love can be lived through a lifetime, or only enjoyed and talked about.
The first manuscript Hilarius Bookbinder claims to have found is a banquet modelled on Plato's Symposium. Victor Eremita, Constantin Constantius and Johannes the Seducer, all from Kierkegaard's earlier books, are among the speakers, and their speeches treat love and woman with every shade of wit and suspicion. The second manuscript is Judge William's defence of marriage against its objectors, taking up the argument of Either/Or again. Laid side by side, the two stand for the aesthetic and the ethical stages of the title, and the ethical holds the last word only until the third manuscript begins.
- love
- marriage
- romantic love
- gender
- comedy
- desire
- aesthetics
- commitment
- ethics
- irony
- poetry
- decision
Enter a dialogue
- What do you say to someone who talks brilliantly about love and has never risked staying with one person?
- A married judge starts to write a proof that marriage is valid, then leaves the pen because his wife is waiting. Does marriage resist argument?
- Marriage, argues a married judge, is no mere happening but a deed of freedom, real only through a resolution. Why can love alone not carry it?
- A banquet speaker says women inspire men only while they are not yet theirs. Why does the book let him speak before the married judge answers?