The Ladder of Love
What is erôs really reaching for? Six speakers praise it in turn, climbing toward Socrates' claim that love of a single body is only the first rung toward Beauty itself.
Aristophanes gives the myth of the split-apart halves forever searching for wholeness; Socrates, reporting the priestess Diotima, redefines love as lack — desire for the beautiful and finally for the good — and charts an ascent from one lovely body, to all bodies, to souls, laws and knowledge, and at last to changeless Beauty. Then a drunk Alcibiades praises not love but Socrates himself. Through Ficino this became the founding text of 'Platonic love,' recasting erotic longing as the soul's motion toward the eternal.
- desire
- love
- intimacy
- wholeness
- lack
- aesthetics
- wisdom
- motivation
- eros
- rhetoric
Enter a dialogue
- A man is consumed by love for one beautiful face — where does your ladder say that longing is really trying to go?
- Diotima's ladder climbs from one beloved toward Beauty itself — but doesn't the flesh-and-blood person matter more than that abstract ascent?
- To climb from one body toward Beauty itself, what must a lover be willing to outgrow and leave behind?
- How is Aristophanes' longing for our lost other half different from the love Diotima says reaches past all persons toward Beauty?
- A person feels an ache of incompleteness they cannot name — does your account of love as desire for what one lacks explain it?